Innere Freiheit ist ein Geschenk, es zu wahren liegt an mir

 

 

Innere Freiheit ist ein Geschenk, es zu wahren liegt an mir :)

Everything or Nothing - Willyecho

 

'Why is safety so important for the woman in your life?

What you may not know is that her sense of safety might have been taken away from her as a child, or maybe in her previous relationships....

The absence of the father, the wounds from her mother, pressure from society, the toxic shame, the abusive men before you and possibly her own disconnection from self....

...are some of the reasons why she may feel  unsafe.

 And maybe, you did something that was hard to forgive....

But, what if I told you, you could support her in feeling safe again?

Withoug taking her sense of safety as your responsibility...

....but instead, showing her through trustworthy consistency, emotional availability and assertive presence that she can be supported in feeling safe in her relationship with you.

I'm here today to remind you of something great:

As a man, your capacity to PROTECT, does not only come physically. It comes emotionally, mentally, and spiritually....

....the safety you provide ultimately comes from how safe you feel with yourself.

Yes, she must cultivate her own sense of safety in order to fully experience yours, but this doesn't mean that you can't support her in the process.

The way you show up, the way you communicate, your consistency, the way you listen, and also the way you choose yourself and set healthy boundaries....

Are are powerful and meaningful ways of creating safety. 

This kind of safety is one that pierces through the walls of doubt and makes her see beyond the illusions of old hurt....

...and what she will see is the truth of your heart and the integrity of your soul.

It's the pathway to a relationship of empowering love and deep intimacy.....'

 

- Malcom Fraser

 

 

'Passion is attractive. When someone is fully immersed in their element, fully present, fully devoted, that exhuberates a level of attractiveness that goes beyond anything as ultimately what makes someone attractive is their energy.'

 - Lorin Krenn

 

 

'Anybody who's made progress recovering from trauma or addiction will tell you: imagination is an ESSENTIAL  part of the toolkit.

One of the ways trauma sucks so profoundly is, it turns our imagination against us.

Reclaiming that tool is a MAJOR victory. And it feels AMAZING.'

- Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle

 

 

'You know the love is real when you notice you're more gentle around them.'

- Cory Allen

 

 

'What I've learned is growth takes curiosity, 

curiosity takes courage, and courage takes a willingness to be vulnerable.'

 

- Zachariah Thompson

 

 

'the thunder in your heart is there for a reason. that lightning in your mind is meant to spark you to move in the direction you're meant to go. those deep callings within you are why you are here - listen to them.

take those risks and make those changes you're ready to make. your future begins today - claim it.'

- topher kearby

 

 

'It's not just about following your heart when it feels comfortable or convenient. It is about following it no matter what. Only when you follow your heart all the way can it guide you home, can it show you what is meant for you in this life. Your heart does the job. It is the leader. Your only responsibility is to trust it all the way.'

- Lorin Krenn

 

 

'Shame dies when stories are told in safe spaces.'

- Ann Voskamp

 

 

'Die Polyvagal - Theorie lädt Sie ein, sich sicher genug zu fühlen, um sich in das Leben zu verlieben und Leben zu riskieren.'

- Deb Dana

 

 

'Self-love isn't constant self-positivity. It is self-compassion, self-accountability, and self-exploration.'

- Tory Eletto