Monday, May 13, 2013


Blanc. Gaps. Fully in uncertainty is a challenge. Nothing more to say. Being good (lol...hahah..forgot those words:) to myself and giving chances. And sometimes you need to take action, to stay a clear STOP. And it amazes me how fast this can come out of the blue, even you kind of sense it weeks before and still, to reach such a point, THAT FAST. One step after another, outcomes fully open, total uncertainty, being human and living with humans, a challenge, isn't it. We all fight our battles inside, we are warriors of heart to find a way living fullfilled, some manage this better others have difficulties over difficulties and it pretty much lays all in the ways of thinking and that amazes me everytime. THE WAY OF THINKING can DESTROY you or CREATE you. It can PULL YOU DOWN or UPLIFT YOU and I am not talking about FEELINGS/EMOTIONS, I am talking about THINKING, those endless 'thoughts' in this 'unique' brain we have.

So, hello Monday. I am exhausted and still doing okay. That is life. 

I wish you a wonderful DAY!

Smiles Anke :)    

'Liebe für Gegenliebe’ stirbt jetzt aus

Wenn du nur liebst, damit der andere dich ‚zurück liebt’, hat das mit der Liebe nichts zu tun. Die ‚Handelsgemeinschaft der Liebe’, der Deal zwischen zwei Menschen, die nicht in ihrer eigenen Liebe stehen, wird jetzt auf der Erde verschwinden, weil die Liebe selbst, aus der wir alle geboren wurden, mobil macht und uns jetzt machtvoll an ihre Gesetzmäßigkeiten und ihre wahre Natur zurückführt.

‚Liebe’ ist gründlich missverstanden worden in unseren Ehen und Partnerschaften. Darum gehen so viele jetzt auseinander, ja werden auseinander genommen, damit jeder den Weg in sein eigenes In-sich-Stehen und –Lieben findet und aus seiner Bedürftigkeit, seiner Verletztheit und dem Klammern am Anderen heraus kommt.

Die ‚besondere Beziehung’ zwischen Frau und Mann (und auch zwischen gleichgeschlechtlichen Partnern), die als ‚Überlebensinsel’ in einer scheinbar harten, ungerechten und lieblosen Welt dienen soll, stirbt jetzt aus, damit wir begreifen: Liebe ist das, was wir in Wirklichkeit sind. Es ist kein Tun, es ist unser natürliches Sein, unsere Natur, an die wir uns jetzt erinnern können.'
- Robert Betz
'When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help.' 

-Thich Naht Hanh

'Don’t let your sorrows drown you. Use them to deepen you, humble and soften you. Use them to build your empathy and compassion for the world. Your sorrow was never meant to overtake you; like everything else in life, it is only a tool. To beautify and strengthen you.'

- Hamzi Korme
'Once you realize that the road is the goal and that you are always on the road, not to reach a goal, but to enjoy its beauty and its wisdom, life ceases to be a task and becomes natural and simple, in itself an ecstasy.'

-Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj
'Take time each day to seek out stillness, to find that sacred spot. Let your mind and soul be at ease. Don't grasp and grab for the magic and miracles. When you reside in that place of stillness, the joy, miracles, and magic you're seeking find you.'

- Melodie Beattie 
'Question : Are you happy..?
L.Buddha : For what was received..?
Question : Are you sad..?
L.Buddha: For what was lost..?
Question: So you are not happy nor sad..?
L.Buddha : You are quite right..!'
How is your day so far?
  And letting go of 'DAY 64-65 I became a disciplin of freedom. Truely inspired, swept off my feet to fly the first time backwards without control. Powwow. Grateful.'

 PS: You need disciplin to live fullfilled.

Seems like in 'BLANC-states' you are letting go of so much matters
and it brings you right back to your true strength,
even those 'moments' are not fun to deal with.
And makes you grow.
It tests you good,
all what you have learned already.

'Lass tief im Menschen uns den Sinn des Lebens suchen,
ein unerschoepftes nie genug geles'nes Buch.'

- Christoph August Tiedge   

PS: The art of 'sharing'.
What does that mean to you?
'We must look at
ourselves over and
over again in order to
learn to love, to
discover what has kept our
hearts closed, and what it means
to allow our hearts to open.'

  -Jack Kornfield
 BLANCS - moments where time, space and non-essential do not matter anymore.
States of floating in groundlessness and still be in your strength,
and still those moments are strenous,
especially intense ones,
those ones when the 'way' got tighter and tighter before it is wide open again.

Those 'pressure-moments' when a part of your diamond inside is getting polished to the real unique radiance.

Interesting a year ago I read this book:   
-Warrior of light by Paulo Coelho

And I can remember how I had to giggle while reading....yes because I could so RELATE.
A year passed and learning was tremendous!
All those lessons.

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