Prozess der Raumentstehung und der Entfaltung darin - ganz annehmen ~ wave to be ~
Green ocean - tiefes weites Ausatmen
'What if conscious relationships aren't about fixing each other....but about holding space for truth to be seen - and loving each other through the beauty and the chaos of our becoming?
Connection isn't a checkbox to tick. It's a living dance that unfolds as its own rhythm, trusting the divine intelligence that brought you together - free from definitions and expectations.
Conscious love isn't about controlling your triggers or hiding your insecurities - it's about creating a safe space for them to arise.
When your wounds show up, you stay.
You listen.
You choose love.
Containment is cultivating a safe space where both can be fully seen, without fear of being too much or not enough.
It's not about fixing.
It's not about rescuing.
It's presence that says:
"I can stand beside you without abandoning myself - and without abandoning you."
True intimacy doesn't follow a script or "masculine" and "feminine" checklists.
It emerges when each person softens into their authentic essence - fluid, dynamic, and alive beyond roles or polarity games.
Conscious relationships are a meeting of energies -
not a negotiation of expectations.
It's not about who you "should be" for each other - but about remembering you wholeness with each other.
Deep love asks:
Can you share your light and your darkness equally?
Can you sit with the messy, the raw, the uncertain - without trying to fix, solve or run away?
This is where real intimacy is born.
You are not each other's projects.
You are mirrors and sacred companions - each evolving in your own timing while choosing to walk beside one another in presence, truth and respect.
This is the invitation:
To co-create a bond built on safety, presence, containment and authentic love - where growth is honored, truth is embraced, and love becomes a spiritual practice.'
- Aljeandra Jaramillo
'Instead of calling yourself out on your "bullshit" or admitting your most "toxic trait" I wonder how it would feel if you said:
I went through some shit and this is how I adapted in order to survive. This is how I learned to get love in childhood. This is how I learned to get my needs met
& then extend compassion to those parts of you & thank you system for doing exactly what I needed to do to keep you alive.
The first option creates shame that may keep us repeating the behaviors. The second acutally empowers us to begin releasing them.'
- Emma Zeck
'The purpose of love has always been to liberate us from our patterns so we can descend deeper into our hearts.
Where we are stuck, there the work lies.
Where we repeat, there the work lies.
Where we react, there the work lies.
The curriculum is infinite, because the depths our hearts are too.'
- Mark Groves
'How do we see the world as sacred again?
By radical noticing.
Looking for awe in all of life.'
- Lucy Jones
'Attachment feels tense. It feels like " I need you to complete me. I need you to be here so that I can be okay."
Commitment feels free. Commitment is like, " I choose you. I want to be here with you. I want to support you as you grow. I want to enjoy this life with you. And if you change, that's okay. I want you to be you.'
- Yung Pueblo
'The Effort Paradox
You have to put in more effort to make something appear effortless.
Effortless, elegant performances are often the result of a large volume of effortful, gritty practice.
Small things become big things.
Simple is not simple.'
- Unknown
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'The masculine grows linearly.
A -> B -> C -> D ->
The feminine grows quantumly.
A -> Q -> G -> A -> E
They often end up at the same place, via completely different pathways.
And evolving relationship understands that we grow differently, and makes space for it.
The feminine jumps back and forward in her growth.
Sometimes becoming incredibly mature and expanded, sometimes bouncing back to where she started.
The masculine tends to progress in a steadfast direction, one little step at a time.
Sometimes so slow to the point is seems like nothing is happening.
When we don't recognize and honor that, actually the masculine and feminine grow differently....
She is endlessly frustrated about his seeming lack of progress.
He is endlessly frustrated at her chaotic inconsistency.
In the evolved dance between the masculine and the feminine....
She is the ORACLE force.
Her quantum nature allows her to feel into the future and sense the important growth that needs to happen for them to get to the next level.
He is the STABILIZING force.
He takes her insights and translates them from potential into concrete reality.
She sees where they are going.
He makes it real.
The masculine and feminine need each other,
deeply.
Without him, she is ungrounded potentially. Seeing what needs to be built, but not quite able to built it.
Without her, he is grounded inertia.
Able to stabilize form, but not quite knowing what form to build.
In this sense, she is the architect and he is the builder of their relationship.
An evolved relationship honors the function of both the masculine and the feminine in the dance of co-creation.
He celebrates and reveres her ability to see, sense and feel where they need to go.
She appreciates and trusts his ability to translate, build and create that reality for them.
And this is how the field of devotion flourishes between them.'
- Damien Bohler
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